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Tuesday, January 20, 2009, 10:50 PM
Growing Up
It's pretty impoprtant for a teenager to learn,how to accept critism and not allowing themselves to agree with it.
I've face many critisms, insults, sacarsticisms and many others.
I do not know what you called them.
Ever since I've choosen the path of going into culinary skills,
there are people who are sacarstic to me.
There are people who looks down on me & very well much with critism.
Afterall, it's not an empty journey with Coffee Club either.
I've seen through how bootlicker people can turn into.
I've been insulted with regards to singaporean behavior.
Even my Mum had been insulted.
So what?
I've grumble so damn fucking much about it.
But I carried no action, till lately.
I fucking attitude at work.
I don't give a fucking damn about it.
All the words coming to my ears, are mostly negative.
Seldom I get positive.
Aiya, it's so common.
People tends to look things on the negative side before they decide on looking at your good.
So, I think one pretty good way I've adopted.
Simply listen then forget it.
Why waste your time getting sad over such things.
Might as well spend my time blogging like now.
OR one other way.
treat them how they treats you.
Only use the second method, when you know it'll work.
If not use the 1st one.
It's like a battle, you got 2 methods.
But you got to see which method suits your enermy better.
I'm here telling people:
I'm standing strong.
I won't fall so easily again.
I want to make my own stand,
I want to make my own decision,
I want to lead my own life.
I don't want to be the one who is so indecisive,
always getting so affected by what people say,
being so diao man ren xing by argueing unreasonably.
I'm not gonna argue over small matter.
You may think, I'm affected by what happened yesterday.
That's why till now I'm still talking about it.
I'm not.
Pen-ing it down, reminding myself.
I'm no longer the diao man ren xing de xiaomeimei anymore.