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Friday, October 10, 2008, 10:39 AM
Back blogging.For people like Simone, would have known what happen yesterday.
People tends to take it as I'm younger than them,
I won't understand(alot of things, what they think).
Alrights, the chat between me and haojie yesterday.
Haojie said that his latest ex, added a guy on friendster.
And this guy is a bad guy(ok, he literately use the words 'bad guy')
He also said that this guy fuck and run, he's a fucker.
Then I said, alrights, but it's her choice of making friends.
I know you're worried for her, probably they're just frens.
He said, this guy cannot be frens de. And I dun understand.
I told him again, probably they are friends, as long as she's not with him can le mar.
He said, I still don't understand.
I was pissed, because what i'm trying to say, he dun understand, and claims that i dun understand.
And I said, it's just friendster. I dun understand nvm. It's between you and her.
And hey, Haojie is 23 this year alrights.
And HELLO?! It's just friendster.
And what I'm trying to tell him is.
Yes, I know you're worried for her(she had been your girl for the past 4-5 years).
She has her rights to make friend and it's her choice.
Even if you two are still together, she still can be friends with that fucker guy.
It's her choice ultimately.
So now, you're no longer with her, the more you have no say.
And her adding that guy in friendster.
When using friendster, you have a choice to 'add as friend' or leave it.
And the opposite party have the right to decline a friend request.
Which means, now she and that guy are friends on friendster,
she have choosen to accept the friend request or added that guy.
Again, it's her choice.
If let's say, you're worried that she gets fuck by that guy.
She has the choice to protect herself.
Really.
She can choose to go out with that guy or not.
She can choose to go what type of place.
She can say 'no' to things.
Ultimately, again, it's her choice.
Why the hell are you making a big fuss out of it?
It's just friendster.
Not as though they have gone out together or whatsoever.
And you claims that I dun understand.
Maybe I dun understand what you're thinking or how you feels.
And really, I dun understand.
'cos I have a different point of view.
And let me say this, it's damn childish to be fretting over things like this.
Because, so what you fret, other's don't give a damn.
Nothing can be changed right.
I'll let you think or say whatever you want.
Let it be if you always think that I dun understand.
Because of the age gap or whatsoever.
I dun give a damn.
I have my stand.
Everything comes with choice.
And no one have the rights to interfere in the other's life.
Unless you're the parent of this person.
So what even if husband&wife, Bf&Gf,
they don't have the rights.
Even parents, they can't run your life, you run your life.
People can only advice you in life, and not run your life.