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Friday, October 3, 2008, 11:36 PM
The 100th post!For the 1st time, my blog lasted me for so long.
HAHA!
Rhica confronted me today.
When I went into the class, I sat next to her,
She immediately took her bag and shifted.
Saying it out loud, "I don't want to sit there."
What ever it is, I suspected it's me again.
So I asked grace what's wrong with Rhica.
Say said, " I don't know. But heard that she wants to talk to you face to face. About Zhihao."
Then grace continued asking me, "What did you told Zhihao?"
I told her, I haven't been talking to Zhihao for so long already.
So after class, Rhica came to me.
Rhica:Did you said that I'm a princess type of girl and I can't take jokes?
Me: Yes, I did say that you can't take jokes, but that was months ago. I never say anything about princess.
Rhica: When was that when you said that about me?
Me: Ages ago, when school started not long.
Rhica: Ok, that time that incident, you apologised, I forgiven. If you want to be friend I'm ok. If you don't, let things be, don't talk behind my back, I don't like it.
Me: Erm, ok. But after that time that incident I stopped already.
Rhica: Ok, then have you told Zhihao anything?
Me: No, I haven't been talking to him for a long time already. If got talk also casual talk. Like yesterday in the kitchen he say sir pour the soap is not because the pot dirty, is because he just want us wash, then i just reply yar lor yar lor, like that only. Never talk in details.
Rhica: Ok.
I ended the conversation off by a shook of hands, i gave her a tap on the shoulder, and told her 'don't think so much'. And walked off.
Then she came to me, she said:
'We are all friends, I don't like it when we talk about others behind their back. Like whenever we got go out, I also got ask them if want ask pam along.'
I don't understand why the hack she explained this to me.
Probably they're guilty or whatsoever.
But I don't give a damn lar,
It's already the past.
I can't turn back the clock to do make any changes to it.
Learnt to let bygones be bygones.
I don't see the need for me to rank up the past to talk about it anymore.
Move on with life.
And I think the girls should also do that.
Unhappy with something I do today.
Then tomorrow just forget what I've done wrong and move on.
Why waste your time on something that can't be change lehs?
And for friends who are attached:
When your relationship becomes rocky,
it's a challenge between both of you.
And there isn't any other parties involve,
not even any other words that comes out from other people's mouth.
Relationship is between 2 people and not more.
Good relationship is when both parties pull through obstacles together hands in hands.
Rhica,
I don't know what happened between you and Zhihao.
But I'm sure I had never interfere between you two's relationship.
Believe it or not is up to you.
And please, don't let your relationship be affected by what others says.
What's more important is what you and Zhi Hao thinks.
People,
don't use me as a dang jian pai(shield) when things happens.
& don't judge me for who am i, till you swear you know me inside out.